Cryptic my ass
Ok...maybe a little cryptic.
Jen asked me rather flatly what is with all the rather cryptic posts lately and really it comes down to this:
I am not ready for a long term, committed relationship.
The dating hiatus is back on and will stay it in effect until I decide that I do in fact want a committed, long term relationship.
Dating recreationally is not my style. If/when I return to the dating world it will be when I am 100% sure that I am willing and ready to fully integrate my life with someone.
To do anything else would be exceptionally irresponsible.
Jen asked me rather flatly what is with all the rather cryptic posts lately and really it comes down to this:
I am not ready for a long term, committed relationship.
The dating hiatus is back on and will stay it in effect until I decide that I do in fact want a committed, long term relationship.
Dating recreationally is not my style. If/when I return to the dating world it will be when I am 100% sure that I am willing and ready to fully integrate my life with someone.
To do anything else would be exceptionally irresponsible.
5 Comments:
Yahoo for dating hiatus! Risible girl gives it a two thumbs up.
Good for you to recognize that you're not ready. Even better that you're taking action because of it.
Either you are writing for the voices in my head or we are one in the same. It appears we are riding the same rollercoaster together. Must be something in the air. I believe this is where we throw our hands in the air and close our eyes. :)
I'm glad you realized it... watching you bounce around like a pinball and waiting for you to figure that out was wearing me out, dude. I was afraid you were turning into a serial dater... one of those people who keep going out with different people because they're addicted to that initial rush of someone new. I'm so happy that I was wrong about that. :)
Yesterday I almost wrote a post about YOU. (I was going to be your Santa and explain to you the nature of love, but then I realized it's not something that can be explained. Or picked up at Farm & Fleet, I'm sorry to say.*lol*)
Much seasonal smooches coming your way, if I don't see you for a while during my vacation!
When the time is right for you, you will know it. Until then, enjoy your friends and family...especially those kids of yours.
I am so glad I ask you flatly what is going on :).
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